When You Know That You’re Sick

pexels-photo-262218.jpeg  A man who was a smoker was visiting his mother one day. A couple of hours into the visit, she noticed he hadn’t once lit up a cigarette. “Are you trying to kick the habit?” she asked.  “No,” he replied. “I have a cold, and I don’t smoke when I’m not feeling well.” “You know,” she observed, “you’d probably live longer if you were sick more often.”

As ironic as it sounds, there are some health benefits that come from knowing that you’re sick.  You may temporarily quit an unhealthy habit.  You may make a long overdue visit to the doctor. You may get more rest, drink more healthy liquids, and eat better foods.  You may get someone to help you with daily tasks that you’ve become too weak to do for yourself.

The same is true in the spiritual realm.  A lot of people are sin sick but don’t realize it.  Sin has separated them from God, alienated them from loved ones, caused misery in their lives and doomed their souls.  But, they haven’t made the connection in their minds between their symptoms and their disease; they may even think that they are not really sick and that life is supposed to be this way.  Only those who recognize their condition will do something about.

If you know that you are spiritually sick, here are some “good things” to try:

  See the doctor.  Jesus has the cure for your sin sick life.  In Mark 2:17 Jesus said, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance.”  Notice two things here.  First, only people who know they are sin sick will go to the physician.  Second, the doctor’s prescription is repentance!   Change your heart and your mind!

  Stop the unhealthy habits that are making you sick.  In the church at Corinth, many were spiritually sick because they were sinning by not taking the Lord’s Supper in a worthy manner.  Paul explains that “he who eats and drinks in an unworthy manner eats and drinks judgment to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body.  For this reason many are weak and sick among you, and many sleep” (1 Corinthians 11:29-30).  The Corinthians needed to evaluate their unhealthy practice and correct it! “But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of the bread and drink of the cup” (1 Corinthians 11:28).  The same is true with every pathogenic sin we commit.  If we want to get better, we must stop committing the sin and do what is right.

  Eat and drink a healthier diet — more of God’s word and work.  Jesus said that “man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God” (Mark 4:4). God’s word is able to build us up (Acts 20:32).  It is the healthiest thing our souls can ingest.  Like honey, it is both sweet and good for us!  The psalmist declares, “How sweet are Your words to my taste, Sweeter than honey to my mouth!” (Psalm 119:103).   Jesus also said, “My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me, and to finish His work” (John 4:34).  God’s word and His work will revitalize us and keep us going!

  Rely more on Christ.  A person who is sick may be too weak to do much for himself.  He must rely on others to lend a hand.  Our infirmities and weakness should cause us to rely more on Christ.  We may be too weak to accomplish much, but He can do all things.  In 2 Corinthians 12, Paul records for us how his own infirmity helped him to trust more fully in the power of Christ.  The Lord told Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” This caused Paul to say, “Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong” (12:9-10).

No one enjoys being sick, but being sick and knowing it may actually help you become healthy.  So, how about it?  Do you think you may be coming down with something?


Love Lessons from the Lord

gods-love  I wonder how many self-help books have been written to try to help people learn how to love each other?  Isn’t that what all those books are really about that are written on topics like marriage, dating, conflict resolution, parenting, and interpersonal relationships?

In the New Testament, we find a group of people who didn’t need to read any how-to books on love.  The Thessalonians had already learned their lesson. The apostle Paul wrote to them, “But concerning brotherly love you have no need that I should write to you, for you yourselves are taught by God to love one another” (1 Thessalonians 4:9).

God is certainly qualified to teach lessons on love.  Who would know more about what love is?  He is the definition of it!  “God is love” (1 John 4:8).  Among the many wonderful lessons we can learn from our heavenly Father, consider these on the nature of love:

  • Love is sacrificial. God gave His only begotten Son out of love for us (John 3:16).  This supreme sacrifice surely teaches us that love is sacrificial by nature.  “In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.  Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another” (1 John 4:10-11).  If we say that we love, but are unwilling to sacrifice, we haven’t learned what love is. In 1 John 3:17-18, the apostle John said, “But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him? My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.”
  • Love is merciful. Ephesians 2:4 states that “God…is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us.”  God’s love for us is the reason He is merciful to us – blessing and forgiving us.  Jesus commanded, “Therefore, be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful” (Luke 6:36).
  • Love is unconditional. It is natural to love those that love us, but it is Supernatural to love those that hate us.  This is the love that God teaches.  Jesus said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’  But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust” (Matthew 5:43-45).
  • Unconditional love can be critical. Unconditional love does not equal uncritical love. Sometimes love demands that we point out the faults of those whom we love. We learn this from Jesus Himself, who told the Laodiceans in Revelation 3:19, “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten.”  If we truly care for another person, we will say and do all that we can to keep them on the right path.

Learning to love means learning to sacrifice for others, to show mercy, to love the unlovable, and to correct those who need correcting.  Have you learned your lesson?


Learning the Truth

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I have had the opportunity on several occasions to attend or read religious debates.  In every such debate, at least one of the disputants has been in error.  Sometimes, they both have been.  Yet, I know for a fact that the debaters often spend hundreds of hours studying what the Bible has to say concerning the subject at hand.  Whether the topic was instrumental music in worship, the necessity of baptism, the mode of baptism, church support of institutions, miraculous spiritual gifts or Sabbath keeping, I have always been impressed with the tremendous amount of Bible study, thought and preparation done by each participant.  Their laborious effort shows.  Personally, I have never heard a debate in which I didn’t learn many new facts, some of them from the person who was defending error.  One can have a lot of facts and still not have the truth!

The same holds true for preachers and Bible class teachers.  Many spend a great deal of time studying and preparing, and can present a lot of true and valuable information.  Yet, many are in error on certain points. Is it because they don’t study enough?  Maybe, in some cases.  But maybe there is more to understanding God’s truth than just studying. Maybe there is more to learning the truth than just learning the facts.

How do we come to know the truth of God’s word?  Is it through study?  Yes.  But something more than study is necessary.

  • Study must be coupled with the will to know the truth, and not with a desire to reinforce our opinions or defend our positions. In John 5:39-40, Jesus told the Jews, “You search the Scriptures, for in them you think you have eternal life; and these are they which testify of Me. But you are not willing to come to Me that you may have life.” The Jews did not discover the truth about the Christ in the Old Testament Scriptures because they were “not willing.”  Even though they searched the Scriptures, they remained in error because they didn’t want the truth more than they wanted their own opinions and traditions.  We will do no better than they as long as we cherish anything more than the truth.  Proverbs 23:23 commands us to “Buy the truth, and do not sell “
  • Study must be thorough, and truly include all of the related information in the Bible on a given subject. Psalm 119:160 states that “The entirety of Your word is truth.”  If I want to know the truth, I must take “the entirety” of God’s word.  If I dismiss or ignore certain passages of Scripture because they don’t fit with my view of truth, I will not learn the truth.
  • Study must be done with the humility of one who is ignorant, not with the pride of one who already knows. In 1 Corinthians 8:1-2, the apostle Paul writes, “Now concerning things offered to idols: We know that we all have knowledge. Knowledge puffs up, but love edifies. And if anyone thinks that he knows anything, he knows nothing yet as he ought to know.”  The person who doesn’t know, but doesn’t know that he doesn’t know, has a lot to learn, but he is not likely to learn it.  One who is proud in his knowledge does not receive instruction and correction; so, he remains in error.  “He who keeps instruction is in the way of life, but he who refuses correction goes astray” (Proverbs 10:17).

I am troubled that there are well-studied brethren who are wrong.  Aren’t you?  I am keenly aware that I might be in the same shape myself, and just as blissfully ignorant of it as many others seem to be.  I must study.  I must study more earnestly, more honestly, more thoroughly, and more humbly. “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth” (2 Timothy 2:15).


America: God Shed His Grace on Thee!

Katherine Lee Bates was a young college professor in 1893 when she traveled to the top of Pikes Peak. On the pinnacle of that majestic purple mountain above the fruited plain, the words of a poem began to form in her mind, and later that evening on her return to Colorado Springs, she wrote them down: “America the Beautiful.” An open-eyed view of the natural and human beauty of our great land evoked the line, “America! America! God shed His grace on thee.”

No nation in the history of mankind, save perhaps ancient Israel itself, has ever been so undeservedly blessed as ours. Our Maker has lavished His grace upon us in the form of wealth, unparalleled liberties, and unfettered access to His divine word — the Bible which freely offers us eternal life. And how, my fellow Americans, have we repaid such grace? With brotherhood from sea to shining sea? With mutual regard for one another’s souls? With respect for the moral standards of the One who has so richly blessed us? With a deep appreciation for the love and truth that He has communicated to us through His Son? 

On this our national birthday, can we all just stop and think? Do we want to be remembered in history and in eternity for what we are today? Has God shed His grace in vain?

We can do better. Much better.pikes peak

Was Jesus too negative?

dscf1444c-cThe Sermon on the Mount is widely regarded as one of the most influential speeches in human history.  This world has been made so much better through the centuries as men and women have applied these teachings of Jesus to their lives.  The sermon is truly a masterpiece from the Master Himself!

But one thing seems to have been rarely noticed about the sermon:  It is overwhelmingly negative.  Any honest, unvarnished look at it, uncolored by our modern negative view of negativity, would reach this conclusion.

Don’t believe me?   Just look in Matthew’s account for yourself.

In chapter five Jesus corrects a great number of misconceptions that His listeners had heard.  He repeatedly uses the words “you have heard that it was said…but I say unto you.”  He is basically telling people that what they’d heard and thought before was either no longer valid or just flat wrong.

In chapter seven, Jesus tells His listeners that few will go to heaven, and that many will walk the broad way that leads to eternal destruction (7:13-14).   He also says that many who call Him Lord will not enter the kingdom of heaven because they practice lawlessness (7:22-23).  Ouch!  That’s some negative preaching!

But chapter six of Matthew’s record contains an absolute onslaught of negativity, made conspicuous by Jesus’ repeated use of the command “do not.”

  • “Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven.” (6:1 )
  • “Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.” (6:2)
  • “But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.” (6:3)
  • “And when you pray, do not use vain repetitions as the heathen do. For they think that they will be heard for their many words.” (6:7)
  • “Therefore do not be like them. For your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him.” (6:8)
  • “Moreover, when you fast, do not be like the hypocrites, with a sad countenance. For they disfigure their faces that they may appear to men to be fasting.  Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.” (6:16)
  • Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal.” (6:19)
  • “Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?” (6:25)
  • “Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?'”(6:31)
  • “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” (6:34)

In case you weren’t counting, that’s TEN TIMES in this one chapter that Jesus begins a command with “DO NOT!”  How could such negative words make such a positive impact? Could it be that some of us are positively wrong when it comes to negativity?  Could it be that positive change is effected as much by the things we avoid and subtract as by the things we add and pursue?  WHO KNEW?!?   Jesus did.



You Better Watch Out!




Someone is making a list.  I’m not sure if He’s checking it twice, but He probably doesn’t need to.  He already knows who’s naughty and nice.  And among the naughty are those who live their lives focused on the acquisition of material things and those who are training their children to have that same focus.

Here are some revealing facts about American prosperity and our trend toward materialism.

  • Consumption of material goods in America has more than doubled in the past 50 years. (NPR)
  • Americans spend $1.2 trillion annually on non-essential goods. (WSJ)
  • 3.1% of the world’s children live in America, but they own 40% of the world’s toys. (UCLA)

In a land where overabundance is the norm and selfishness is touted as a virtue, Jesus has something to say that American Christians need to hear during this holiday season.  “Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions”  (Luke 12:15, ESV).

It seems that for many folks, the possession of more things is their primary pleasure in the present and the basis of their expectation for security in the future.  There was once a certain rich man who thought that way.  He was prosperous and wanted to keep all of his stuff for his enjoyment and future security.  “But God said to him, ‘Fool! This night your soul is required of you, and the things you have prepared, whose will they be?'” (Luke 12:20).

Today in America…

  • 25% of people with two car garages don’t have room to park cars inside them, and another 32% have room for only one vehicle (U.S. Dept. of Energy).
  • There are over 50,000 storage facilities, more than 5 times the number of Starbucks. There is 7.3 square feet of self-storage space for every man, woman and child in the nation.  It is physically possible that every American could stand – all at the same time – in self-storage facilities.

Don’t get me wrong.  There is no sin in having things.  There is no sin in taking care of the things that you have.  But Jesus said that anyone “who lays up treasure for himself and is not rich toward God”is being foolish (Luke 12:21).

What are we teaching our children when we overload them with more toys than they could possibly play with?  We better watch out!  We need to remember to show them that it is more blessed to give than to receive, that we are blessed to bless others, and that the best storage facility of all is in heaven!

“As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy.  They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life.” (1 Timothy 6:17-19)


“Thoughts on Online Dating Apps”


photograph by Justin Bishop

Guest author: Wayne Holt

Elizabeth Anne (Calvert) Henderson wrote an article on her WordPress blog recently, entitled “The Thing About Social Media,” where she listed several pros and cons of using social media.  In the opening paragraph she stated, “The internet is a place where we have to guard our hearts and minds against all things damaging.”  She said social media could lower one’s self-esteem, waste our time, and provide a platform for complainers.  However, the same Internet can be used to help us keep in touch with family and friends and spread the gospel of Jesus Christ in ways like never before in history.  In her conclusion, Elizabeth Anne says, “No, social media isn’t evil. But those temptations are.”  It’s not the tool; it’s the way we use the tool or let it use us.

For years I’ve seen ads on TV for dating services like eHarmony and perhaps others, but recently heard mentioned two social-media-based dating services.  Knowing nothing about either, I did a little research.

On the About page from Kelly’s Korner, I read: “My name is Kelly Stamps.  I live in Northwest Arkansas.  I grew up in a tiny town in Arkansas as a Southern Baptist preacher’s daughter and went to college at Ouachita Baptist University.  I met my husband Scott on a blind date and we married one month before I turned 30.  We have almost been married 9 years!”

On her Home page she says today (January 22) is Singles Day and reminds everyone “just remember eleven couples have met and married through Singles Day here on my blog.”  This certainly appears to be clean and innocent.

The other social media page I heard mentioned may have similar goals, but my reading revealed a much different atmosphere.  In an article, Tinder and the Dawn of the “Dating Apocalypse,” I read: “It’s a balmy night in Manhattan’s financial district, and at a sports bar called Stout, everyone is Tindering. The tables are filled with young women and men who’ve been chasing money and deals on Wall Street all day, and now they’re out looking for hookups. Everyone is drinking, peering into their screens and swiping on the faces of strangers they may have sex with later that evening. Or not.” And “When asked if they’ve been arranging dates on the apps they’ve been swiping at, all say not one date, but two or three: ‘You can’t be stuck in one lane … There’s always something better.’”

The site seems to be for the late teens, 20s, and 30s age groups.  In a section, Sex Has Become So Easy, I read, “People used to meet their partners through proximity, through family and friends, but now Internet-meeting is surpassing every other form. ‘It’s changing so much about the way we act both romantically and sexually,’ Garcia says. ‘It is unprecedented from an evolutionary standpoint.’ As soon as people could go online they were using it as a way to find partners to date and have sex with.”

I could go on with comments such as “you are not ordering a cake, you are ordering a person” or “instant gratification,” but it is obvious this is NO PLACE FOR A CHRISTIAN TO BE HANGING OUT.  I hope any of you using this site or even thinking about using it (or any others like it), will choose a better path and stay away from this temptation.

And, Tinder is not just for the younger crowd.  An article, “Love Me Tinder,” describes Eli as “27 years old, losing the vestigial greenness of his youth” making Tinder-contact with Katherine who “was 37, newly single, with family obligations and a full-time job. Most of her friends were married. She needed something new.”  And what they both want is what Tinder seems to offer—a quick hook-up with a stranger for whatever intent both are comfortable with.

I offer this disclaimer.  Maybe I just read about the bad side of Tinder.  I just read the articles I could find.  But, for any Christian looking for a date, why would you hang out in a sex bar?

Proverbs 4:14-15 “Do not enter the path of the wicked, And do not walk in the way of evil. Avoid it, do not travel on it; Turn away from it and pass on.”